Another study, defining sexually coercive behavior as the act of using pressure e. This is not to say, by the way, that the agency of the rape victim has no meaning to the act or to the assailant: For example, the prevalence of various forms of sexual street harassment demonstrate the social norm that male-bodied persons do and ought to have a disproportionate right to impose a sexual interaction upon female-bodied persons. A smaller percentage of college men in a longitudinal study reported utilizing verbally coercive tactics, 3. And, later, I cried for hours. If you think the concept of consent is common sense, and that all of this effort is for naught, guess again. I am not, therefore, conceptualizing sexual agency as a kind of utter sexual autonomy, in the sense of an individualized ability to act in the world free from the influence of others. In this sense, the interaction most likely does not contribute positively to her sexual becoming or flourishing. Sexual Coercion Despite scholars moving in the direction of attempting to examine broader forms of sexual victimization and perpetration tactics, sexual coercion is understudied [ 56 ], producing definitions and operationalizations of sexual coercion that suffer from lack of consistency and theoretical conundrums [ 38 , 57 , 58 , 59 ]. Research specifically focused on sexual activity resulting from VSC highlights the high prevalence of this form of sexual victimization on college campuses. Two related caveats are in order. On October 1, , California became the first state to require this form of education in state high schools. That is, women often felt that the situation they were in did not allow for them to do anything but consent. Nor have I addressed here any potential legal ramifications of this ethical analysis, which again are beyond the scope of the current discussion. Conly, Sarah. Most pertinent to the current article, many studies have begun to focus specifically on the idea that sexual coercion refers only to the use of verbally coercive tactics, rather than physical tactics [ 36 , 38 , 87 ]. In both cases, I hold, sexual agency plays an important role, but a different role in each case. We contend that consent resulting from VSC is separate from consent from societal pressure or expectations [ , ]. Langton , 14 Here, it could be argued and I would probably agree with such a critique that Langton has too simplistic a notion of autonomy, such that it either is or is not at work, rather than seeing autonomy or agency as occurring along a continuum of restriction and freedom. In situations where some consensual activity has occurred, men may also believe that women are willingly consenting to all sexual acts, despite indicating non-consent or a lack of willing consent [ , , ]. To frame the ethical distinction as between the presence or absence of consent would miss as such a framework often does the crucial question of uptake, that is, of whether the interaction was marked by a recognition of the efficacy of consent or its lack. This effectively shifted sexual assault policy from a no-means-no standard to a yes-means-yes standard [ 20 ]. Because of the alarmingly high incidences of campus sexual assault—the scope of which it seems we have only recently begun to recognize—there has been a strong push for the incorporation of consent education in high school sexuality education courses. Of these incidents, women reporting that these experiences occurred while on dates, Prevalence of VSC on College Campuses Feminist rhetoric and empirical evidence suggest that some campuses are rape-prone [ 98 ], where sexual assault is the norm rather than the exception.
First, the sexual agency that is recognized is carefully and significantly limited in scope. Then there is the definition of sexual violence developed by the World Health Organization, which is actually folded into the group's definition of overall intimate partner violence IPV. First, to cover a wide range of literature, we sacrificed separate in-depth analyses of sexual coercion and consent in order to focus more on breadth and tie these two concepts together conceptually. For example, the prevalence of various forms of sexual street harassment demonstrate the social norm that male-bodied persons do and ought to have a disproportionate right to impose a sexual interaction upon female-bodied persons. Along those lines, this analysis demonstrates how sexual interactions that do not constitute sexual assault may nevertheless entail significant ethical flaws, an insight that counteracts a tendency common among those of us who work on issues of sexual violence to assume that sexual interactions are only unethical if they entail sexual violence, or that sexual violence is the most common form of unethical sexual behavior. Sexual coercion has also been combined with physical force into one dichotomous variable [ 39 , 63 , 73 , 84 , 85 ]. For instance, adopting an affirmative consent standard operates on least three major assumptions: Suggesting some other activity, either sexual or nonsexual, could be perceived as just as problematic as withholding consent. Cahill 7 November Feminists have long criticized the adequacy of consent in defining non-coercive heterosexual sex. A similar breakdown of prevalence by tactic was found by Katz and Tirone [ 46 ] in their study of 76 college women that were sexually active in relationships. Importantly, the types of interactions that are described in these interviews are described as quite common and to be expected; in other words, they are heavily normalized as typical features of heterosex. They also include stories of situations where a male partner was not directly coercive at all, but where the woman nevertheless found herself going along with sex that was neither desired nor enjoyed because she did not feel it was her right to stop it or because she did not know how to refuse. She claims that there exists a category of sexual interactions that inhabit a grey area between sexual violence and ethical sex, and that in describing these interactions, women often indicate that although there seemed to be something wrong, or at least not quite right, about them, they did not seem to be instantiations of sexual violence. Closely related to this are feelings of entitlement [ 66 ].
Cahill 7 November Feminists have long criticized the adequacy of consent in defining non-coercive heterosexual sex. Due to the wide berth that this paper covers, we perceive this as a first step in a series of additional empirical, conceptual, and theoretical work. First, it seems important to recognize that the interviewees repeatedly described their experiences as ambiguous. Studies on verbal sexual coercion typically examine tactics such as nagging or trying to convince, ignoring, threatening to break up, and to more forceful forms of verbal coercion such as displaying anger or yelling [ 34 , 38 , 46 , 49 , 56 , 75 , 88 ]. Another study on college students and high school students, both male and female, found that As a sociological or psychological concept, scholars demarcate between non-consent and consent. The nature of that contribution, the way in which it matters, is also crucial, and here I would argue that agency is in play in a particular way: This article is an open access article distributed under the terms and conditions of the Creative Commons Attribution CC BY license http: Rape, unconsciousness, and social media. But this particular case aside, rape can be a slippery thing. Research from contemporary scholars appears that preventing further harm or sexual assault is indeed a major reason why women consent to sex that they do not want [ 34 , ]. However, Shotland and Hunter [ ] in a close analysis of token resistance suggested that women retrospectively may believe that their resistance was insincere, yet their lack of desire was sincere at the time and what happened was a change in intention.
In sum, while we acknowledge that both non-consent and consent can be communicated verbally and nonverbally, we argue that consent should be freely given, free of VSC and force. Introduction Campus sexual assault CSA is a pervasive social problem widely known by college administrators, educators, law enforcement, government, and, most of all, students. First, it seems important to recognize that the interviewees repeatedly described their experiences as ambiguous. To corral the multiple ways in which sexual violence is experienced into all-encompassing definitions is inevitably to fail to illuminate the complex and varied meanings of sexual violence, and the attempt is more likely to perpetuate rather than undermine the interlocking systems of inequality and injustice that result in acts of sexual violence. Definitions of Consent Consent appears to be an elusive, under-researched topic [ 19 , 53 ] and consent is particularly understudied within the college context [ 32 ]. Am I perpetuating the problem? So was it rape all those years ago? Despite a relatively recent empirical focus specifically on VSC, not only are definitions, methodologies, and operationalizations of verbal sexual coercion inconsistent from study to study, but more nuanced studies examining the context, such as timing and tone of verbal coercion, have been lacking [ 32 , 56 ]. She claims that there exists a category of sexual interactions that inhabit a grey area between sexual violence and ethical sex, and that in describing these interactions, women often indicate that although there seemed to be something wrong, or at least not quite right, about them, they did not seem to be instantiations of sexual violence. As an intersubjective, embodied, lived, social, and political phenomenon, sexual violence resists easy categorization. However, the fact that these interactions are constructed in the social imaginary as part and parcel of normalized heterosex, while at least some forms of sexual assault are constructed in the social imaginary as aberrant and worthy of social condemnation, indicates that the different phenomena may not only function differently in terms of their social and political meanings, but also may carry distinct ethical meanings to the women who experience them. Headlines exposing the failure of college campuses to prevent and respond to campus sexual assault [ 1 ] have proliferated. Recall that we are not focused on alcohol-related sexual assault here, which tends to have its own protective and risk factors for perpetration [ ], although some research has shown cases where there is a presence of both verbal sexual coercion and alcohol use [ 34 , 50 , 56 ]. These examples are experienced by the women who narrate them as quite normal, or at least hardly remarkable: Why am I so reluctant to apply it to my own experience? Most of the time men stop once they have received a sexual refusal [ 89 ], however some men continue even after hearing sexual refusal [ 48 ]. First, to cover a wide range of literature, we sacrificed separate in-depth analyses of sexual coercion and consent in order to focus more on breadth and tie these two concepts together conceptually.
Were both participants old enough to consent? The ideal fix would be for an overarching governing body to develop definitions that could be adopted by every state's legislature; meanwhile, we need effective education on consent and healthy sexuality—not just for children, but for everybody. Fourth, this paper included psychological, social, and legal scholarly work, however, in this paper there is an intentional focus on legal scholarship. And, later, I cried for hours. And yet metaphors can accomplish only so much. Sexual Coercion: In other cases, the decision not to report is a purposeful one. There are many reasons articulated throughout this paper as to why we believe that this conceptualization is necessary, but it is also worth noting that research has suggested that women experience similar levels of distress despite the type of perpetration tactic [ 97 ], suggesting the utility of including tactics of verbal sexual coercion on a continuum with other perpetrator tactics. According to Inside Higher Ed, by more than colleges were using an "affirmative consent" standard in their sexual assault policies. MacKinnon, Catharine. Over time, more and more came forward. Cambridge, Mass.: The appearance of choice — the attribution of autonomy — was crucial to the destruction of choice — the violation of autonomy. Nonetheless, research suggests that a number of gaps in evidence-based programs and policies remain [ 6 ].
That distinction is not quite precise enough, however, as it does not account for cases of sexual violence where the survivor is either incapable of having or expressing their will because they are unconscious; see Heyes or where their expression of their will does not meet the standard of consent because they are significantly incapacitated by, say, drugs or alcohol. Over time, more and more came forward. In BDSM circles and occasionally outside these circles as well , some people choose to roleplay rape scenes—with communication, consent and safety being especially crucial elements. Nor is sexual agency affected only by individual relationships; patterns of inequality accord varying degrees of sexual agency to different individuals. In other words, the ambiguity that these narratives represent is itself meaningful, and given that that ambiguity indicates that there might be similarities and differences between the two phenomena, it is reasonable to explore both lines of questioning. In this way, the situation does recognize and continue to construct her as a sexual agent, as someone whose contribution to the interaction matters significantly. Victim blaming. Dead to the world: Crucially, the process of identification is a social one, involving not only other individuals, but also ways of having and interpreting experience that are both collectively developed and profoundly political. Moreover, sexual agency is not an all or nothing affair, as the following analysis will demonstrate. In other cases, sexual coercion is equated to unwanted sexual intercourse, typically as the result of compliance or acquiescence [ 75 , 86 ] and sometimes is not defined as rape [ 26 , 61 , 83 ]. Whether we understand her contribution as consent, or acquiescence, or opting to give in to what seems either inevitable or the lesser of one or more evils, still, she is making a contribution to the interaction. Research Gaps This Paper Seeks to Address There are several gaps in the literature that this paper seeks to address, but first there are several things we would like to note. Pateman, Carol. But what precisely distinguishes the two? Discuss how verbal sexual coercion has been defined and operationalized. In other cases, the decision not to report is a purposeful one. Most of the time men stop once they have received a sexual refusal [ 89 ], however some men continue even after hearing sexual refusal [ 48 ]. Marital rape is just one obvious example. Studies on perpetration have found a range of prevalence of verbally coerced sexual intercourse. Operationalizations, Definitions, and Conceptual Arguments Many scholars use the terms sexual coercion and sexual assault interchangeably or that sexual coercion encompasses all types of perpetration tactics that lead to sexual assault [ 59 , 74 ]. Meanwhile, according to a Department of Justice survey, 35 percent of sexual assault victims didn't report their assault because it was "unclear that it was a crime or that harm was intended.
That is, women often felt that the situation they were in did not allow for them to do anything but consent. My argument here does not, however, mean that it is impossible to categorize any particular interaction as one of sexual violence. What makes the cases of unjust sex that Gavey describes different from sexual assault and rape? In New Jersey, for example, aggravated sexual assault in the first degree is defined as "committing an act of sexual penetration with another person" under a set of possible circumstances, including the use of "physical force or coercion," and with severe personal injury sustained by the victim. For instance, while college students readily identify physically forced sex as rape and as unacceptable [ 86 ], recent research at one university also shows that they identify rape as something that can occur as a result of verbal pressure or coercion, or when one takes advantage of a person who is under the influence of drugs or alcohol [ 99 ]. This idea that some men do not take no for an answer is supported by research that has found that many women do indeed voice or physically indicate non-consent and some men use VSC or other tactics to obtain consent from her despite the sexual refusal. Yet there are crucial differences between the approaches that Gavey and MacKinnon take. Another study found that women that were more likely to comply with unwanted sexual advances were also more likely to report emotional discomfort during their first sexual encounter, suggesting that historical experiences influence their compliance to future unwanted sexual advances [ ]. The following section outlines the prevalence of unwanted sex as a result of VSC coercion on college campuses. This, I would argue, is a positive development, as such definitional attempts are philosophically misguided. Beyond providing the metaphor of scaffolding, Gavey does not explicate the precise ways in which examples of unjust sex overlap ethically with examples of sexual assault. Definitions of Consent Consent appears to be an elusive, under-researched topic [ 19 , 53 ] and consent is particularly understudied within the college context [ 32 ]. Nonetheless, research suggests that a number of gaps in evidence-based programs and policies remain [ 6 ]. Others scholars treat sexual coercion as distinct from forcible rape, but not as a continuum [ 24 , 33 , 56 , 82 ] or as a construct entirely separate from sexual assault [ 38 , 83 ]. This study combined two measures of verbal coercion: To be clear, I am not arguing that cases of unjust sex that do not constitute sexual violence involve sexual agency on the part of the victim, whereas cases of sexual violence do not. Introduction Campus sexual assault CSA is a pervasive social problem widely known by college administrators, educators, law enforcement, government, and, most of all, students. Gender roles encouraging women to defer to men may influence women to be more concerned about their male partner in these interactions than they are with their own autonomy [ 75 ]. Similarly, one study found that past negative sexual encounters were related to sexual compliance, suggesting that this could be because they learned that not submitting resulted in greater negative consequences. So not only is there only one viable, safe response to that offer, request, or demand, but anything other than a response would seem at the very least odd, and possibly incoherent. Overall, many women that consented to unwanted sex reported feeling guilt, anger, anxiety, and depression [ ], as well as experiencing self-blame [ 50 , 75 ], regardless if they labeled their experiences as sexual assault and regardless of perpetrator tactic [ 97 ]. In such situations, women know that only a concession will be taken at face value — unquestioned, accepted, validated. Situationally, when unwanted but consensual sex is the result of VSC, this renders any additional tactics of coercion or force unnecessary [ 57 , , , ]; if initial tactics were unsuccessful, other tactics may be used and some men will escalate to using physical force [ 40 , 56 , 67 , 70 , 75 , 76 , , ]. Similarly, women that reported experiencing or fearing physical aggression, which was also related to consenting to unwanted sex, experienced long-term psychological distress [ 56 ]. Langton, Rae. Anything other than a concession will be taken as a stance that is, at best, subject to questioning and persuasion that borders on coercion. Cahill argues, unjust sex is sex that a woman is pressured into having, but in which her agency still plays a role.
Suggesting some other activity, either sexual or nonsexual, could be perceived as just as problematic as withholding consent. Seduction, rape, and coercion. Because of the alarmingly high incidences of campus sexual assault—the scope of which it seems we have only recently begun to recognize—there has been a strong push for the incorporation of consent education in high school sexuality education courses. Just sex? Men, women, and rape. Janda who is an associate professor of psychology at Old Dominion University  said that the sexual fantasy of being raped is the most common sexual fantasy for women. Other examples included women feeling disempowered when it came to insisting on barrier methods of birth control. And yet metaphors can accomplish only so much. Gap How We Plan to Address the Gap Definitions, Operationalizations, and Prevalence of Verbal Sexual Coercion There is no consistent definition in the literature for sexual coercion or verbal sexual coercion in particular. Sexual Coercion: Similarly, other studies have found that trying to arouse a partner with sexual touching or compliments is a common way to obtain sex from an unwilling partner, but these behaviors are decidedly different from verbally coercive tactics [ 46 , 48 , 67 , 75 ]. To ascribe philosophical salience to their different levels of normalization is not to accept one as ethical and one as not remember, Gavey explicitly recognizes the unethical nature of these interactions, while simultaneously seeking to both connect them with and distinguish them from sexual assault. Overall, many women that consented to unwanted sex reported feeling guilt, anger, anxiety, and depression [ ], as well as experiencing self-blame [ 50 , 75 ], regardless if they labeled their experiences as sexual assault and regardless of perpetrator tactic [ 97 ]. The fact that acts in the grey area can be distinguished from acts of sexual violence does not automatically entail that they should not be illegal although I would have significant concerns about whether the current US justice system has the necessary conceptual and bureaucratic tools to address such cases. Crucially, the process of identification is a social one, involving not only other individuals, but also ways of having and interpreting experience that are both collectively developed and profoundly political. Studies assessing victimization that have examined fewer items of VSC, have reported that 1. Gavey often describes these examples as instances of women conceding to having sexual interactions despite not really wanting those interactions although she is also careful to note, albeit somewhat parenthetically, that she is not saying that the presence of desire is what is necessary to make those interactions ethical. Another study on college students and high school students, both male and female, found that Sexual perversion. While it could also be argued that some men move forward with sex because they genuinely believe that the woman consents and desires sex, some scholars argue that this is due to a self-serving bias.
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Beyond providing the metaphor of scaffolding, Gavey does not explicate the precise ways in which examples of unjust sex overlap ethically with examples of sexual assault. Crucially, the process of identification is a social one, involving not only other individuals, but also ways of having and interpreting experience that are both collectively developed and profoundly political. Indeed, the issue of consent and coercion seems to be the one question we can turn to no matter which definition we're considering, and which entity has developed it.
This is not to say, by the way, that the agency of the rape victim has no meaning to the act or to the assailant: Rethinking rape.