Electric 69 Katie Buckleitner There's not much height, not much width—so get creative with a 69 hybrid. So if you and your lover are driving down the highway and you're bored as sin, and get understandable horny, you can't well have a roll on the interstate. So what are your options when it comes to blowjobs , cunnilingus and 69ing? There are plenty of formulas on the market engineered for specific use cases, depending on where and what you're trying to lube up. Plus, this angle lets you see her body react to your thrusting and your hands are free to roam her whole body—from her breasts all the way down to her clitoris. If you want to make eye contact and get a view of her from the front, doing this in front of a mirror could turn up the heat a little bit. Doggy-Style Variation: And like getting fit or climbing the ladder at work, a better sex life does actually take some work. Hot Playboy Radio Host: The real secret to this trick is that the blood in your body is going to rush to your head, making your orgasm much more intense than you ever thought possible. You start in the typical doggy style pose with your partner on all fours, then lift her up by her thighs from behind, with your arms underneath her legs to help support them. Bonus Discover new sensations for both of you by widening your knees or bringing them closer to his body. If you're spooning during foreplay, you can take the lead and kiss your partner's neck while touching them from behind, and make it all about their pleasure. Benefit Allows for quality face time and connecting. You can have her legs spread around yours, or vice versa — do whatever feels most comfortable for you. From here, you can place her ankles on your shoulders. Sideways Straddle Though some may shy away from this position because it looks "difficult," it's actually worth your while to give it a shot. Another way to do it is to have her lean against a desk or table. Perhaps the most famous version of this blowjob position is getting one in a car, known as "road head. Have her standing straight up and back up to you slowly, and then bend over at 90 degrees. If you've written off the idea of trying out a cock ring because you don't need extra help lasting, it's time to revisit the benefits of using one. Insert yourself into your partner, and then move your hips to thrust in and out. Meanwhile, she can use her hands to help support his body weight. What could be more confidence-boosting than mastering a tricky sex position?
For lack of a better phrase, this position puts you all up in each other's business, and is extremely intimate. The key is to communicate with your partner. If you want to make eye contact and get a view of her from the front, doing this in front of a mirror could turn up the heat a little bit. For those of you who could use a confidence boost when it comes to your sex life, try one or all of these nine positions — they're a fast-track to becoming a shining star in the sheets. This position requires little work on her behalf, but feels amazing because her legs are placed closely together which creates a tighter entry for him and increased sensation for her. Grasp her around her hips firmly and thrust into her. Pile Driver Carlee Ranger This one is no walk in the park for the man either. There are a couple of ways to execute this pose: This position is great when you want to give her clitoral stimulation, while still maintaining the closeness and intimacy that some other face-to-face positions bring, says sex researcher Jessica Wood, Ph. She does the same, keeping her legs inside yours. This vibrator has four different intensity levels and vibration patterns, so you can adjust it to her needs. Emily Morse says: Intermediate Vs. Have her straddle on of your legs. This variation, which is not for beginners, also requires some specific hardware, as you'll need a chin-up bar or some sort of equivalent bar for the top person to hang from. This also takes your standard Missionary and Coital Alignment Technique positions a step further, letting you stimulate her most sensitive area without much additional effort. Try out this vibrating ring if you want to go that route—it fits perfectly against her clitoris. Depending on her height, her feet might not be able to touch the floor. The fact that you're putting more of your body on display, and also putting your athleticism to the test. Against a Wall Carlee Ranger This is a staple of movie sex scenes — two characters passionately embrace for the first time and, too lustful to make it to the nearest bed, simply get it on against the nearest wall. We're thrilled to share them with you here, beginning with Cavanah and Venning's step-by-step suggestions for vaginal sex and then adding ideas for other forms of play each month. The only real way to feel percent confident in bed? Try incorporating dirty talk… Sex toys… Bondage… Or other props that you both agree will really help push things to the next super-sexy level.
Plus, you can help her out by thrusting from beneath her. You can either use it as a bridge while building to orgasm, or moving into it right before the big finale. The sheer physical intensity of this one means it's not for the faint-hearted, but can provide an adrenaline rush as you go closer and closer to your breaking point. While sideways 69ing requires a bit more effort than the upright version, it's a great option if lying on top of each other is tricky for whatever reason, and offers a fun new spin — literally — on a classic oral position. To love yourself and your body, and know that if you're open and honest, good sex is totally within your grasp. Missionary Carlee Ranger The Missionary position man on top, couple facing each other is the most famous and classic of all positions. He holds onto your thighs to pull you still deeper onto him. This twist on missionary position increases clitoral stimulation for your partner, says sex researcher Nicole Prause, Ph. She should also be on her side, using and can wrap her arm around your legs for balance and leverage. Cowboy This one is like vagina-owner-on-top, in heterosexual, cis-gendered couples, except with the genders reversed. Bonus Alternate between shallow and deep thrusting to stimulate different parts of the vagina. Doggy-Style Stairs Carlee Ranger Another set up that works for anal sex or vaginal sex, the Doggy-Style sex on the stairs takes advantage of the natural inclination and steps to create new angles and supports for a classic position. Plus, he can control the depth and speed of penetration that works for them both. Bonus Discover new sensations for both of you by widening your knees or bringing them closer to his body. Climb on top, and learn how to work your hips to help yourself and your partner achieve orgasm. Another variation is for the [vagina-owner] to lie all the way back onto the edge of the bed while [the penis-owner] enters—this can be a little easier on your neck. You'll probably have to lift her up higher and then slower her very slowly onto your penis.
The book's inclusive, deftly illustrated guides to manual, oral, vaginal, and anal sex positions are our favorite part. Have her straddle you, so she can move up and down. You kneel, placing your left outstretched knee to the left of the woman and your right leg behind you. While basic, yes, these positions are also sex staples. This position is great because it allows you to get that deep penetration so many love about Doggy-Style, but you're more connected with your partner because her whole body is up against you. Confidence can come from feeling a little more deviant than usual, and this position is a great way to flex your sexual-rule-breaking muscles. Hear me out: She can then move up and down your penis, controlling the depth and speed. The last guy I slept with did this to me… and I came in like 2 minutes. Here are 11 more positions that will help you go deeper during sex. Learning how to navigate standing sex positions. Once you're penetrating her, have her rotate her torso so her legs are pointing in opposite directions. For more support, she can place a pillow under her stomach or prop herself up with her forearms with her hands framing her head and neck. Even if you consider yourself "sexperienced," with each new partner you have, it's like you're pushing reset: Plus, you can help her out by thrusting from beneath her. Something like the We-Vibe Sync, which offers G-spot and clitoral stimulation while allowing for simultaneous penetration will do the trick nicely. Bedside Doggy-Style Carlee Ranger A lot of sexual positions have the woman on an elevated platform with the man on the ground — this one flips the script.
Missionary Carlee Ranger Missionary is one of the most popular sex positions because it delivers results. If you're lying one on top of the other, typically woman on top is easier, with each of you pleasuring the other orally. The position can actually be quite interesting for her clitoris. A ramp or cushion that gives your partner just enough lift off the floor, but enough support that it won't collapse under your pressure could be the key to finally finding her G-spot. The final result is only worth the energy and practice you put into it. Her legs can either be wrapped around his hips, her feet can be flat on the floor or she can have her knees bent up to her breasts. In a usual 69, when a partner gets super turned on, their mouth just sort of If he slides a well-lubed hand between your legs as he thrusts, keep him around. Grasp her around her hips firmly and thrust into her. In this position, the male partner sits in the tub with his legs extended and gets to relax. To help maintain your energy, keep your legs slightly bent. The pressure you put on her clitoris could help her get to orgasm quicker. Depending on your height, you can either be standing or kneeling for this one. The only real way to feel percent confident in bed? In its simplest form, you kneel on the bed, with your partner on all fours. Corkscrew How Near the edge of a bed or bench, rest on the hip and forearm of one side and press your thighs together. Crouching Reverse Cowgirl Carlee Ranger The Reverse Cowgirl is usually done in something of a vertical T-position, with the man lying flat on his back and the woman bouncing up and down mostly upright. It's normal to feel vulnerable when you're naked and doing something as intimate as having sex. Begin Slideshow Image: This vibrator has four different intensity levels and vibration patterns, so you can adjust it to her needs. This sex position is slow and encourages deeper penetration. Click through for the good stuff. Typically, this one starts with the woman lying on her back, her partner can then pick her lower body up and support it while her head and shoulders remain in place. You control the thrusting in this position, because generally keeping her balance is going to be enough of a challenge in itself. With your partner on her back, have her spread her legs and tie her ankles and her wrists together. If you have a strong core, you can move half way down the ottoman, which gives you more freedom to thrust. If you want to change things up, arch your knees up to give her something to easily push off of. This also leaves your hands free to insert a finger or two into her vagina for some internal stimulation at the same time. Also, keep in mind that you will probably have to play with the angle after you enter her. It's perfect because it allows both partners, regardless of gender, to play an active role:
Go slowly at first to make sure the angle is good for both of you — you can also add or remove pillows from underneath her as needed. Nonetheless, it's OK to feel like you need a little self-esteem pick-me-up every now and then. If you find there are height differences making it difficult for you to enter her easily — try raising her up by placing a pillow under her hips. Hold her at her waist to maintain more control over the rhythm of your thrusting. Missionary Variation: Both of you will lie on your sides, with you behind her. How it feels depends on the surface. You get on your knees, resting your ass on your hamstrings. Of course, there are options that are better for getting her there. Sex should be something you and your partner continually learn from and improve, in order to keep it fresh, exciting, and enjoyable. Plus, it creates more tension in both of your bodies, which easily amps up arousal, she says. The sheer physical intensity of this one means it's not for the faint-hearted, but can provide an adrenaline rush as you go closer and closer to your breaking point. But if she can pull if off, she deserves a pat on the back — she might need it for support anyway. Have your partner lie flat on the table this also works with any roughly waist-high platform and have her butt pushed right up to the edge, or even overhanging a tiny bit. The Sitting V Carlee Ranger Have her sit on table or counter with enough room for her to lean back, and with her butt slightly hanging off the edge. Bonus Instead of letting him do all the work, try thrusting you hips slightly to match his tempo. Sideways Oral Carlee Ranger Recline on your side, and have your partner position herself so that her head is in line with your crotch. It's fun, and can come in handy in case you're ever having sex in some place where a bed isn't available. As for the best car sex positions, you're probably better off sticking to the standard Cowgirl, although Missionary might also be an option. Cowgirl's Helper How Similar to the popular Cowgirl position, you kneel on top of him, pushing off his chest and sliding up and down his thighs. Go the edge of the bed and kneel. You kneel, placing your left outstretched knee to the left of the woman and your right leg behind you. Not only does it provide better control over movements for her, but it also ensures you have one of the best orgasms of your life. Woman on Table Sex Carlee Ranger For truly intense thrusting and sex that involves a lot of power, having your feet firmly planted on the ground is a great way to go.
Instead of bouncing up and down like they do in all of your favorite movies, have your partner swirl around in circles and rock back and forth so that the penis hits the wall of her G-spot over and over again. The futon's preternatural firmness that plagues you when you're trying to sleep is your friend here. In this version, rather than kneeling forward, the man kneels back with his butt on his heels, shifting it from a thrusting position to more of a riding position. The seated man has his partner straddling him in a kneeling position with her knees on either side of his hips. Doggy-Style Oral Carlee Ranger Unlike most other oral positions, this Doggy-Style one is crazy bending ability aside pretty much just for performing on women. You should make sure she's flexible enough to pull this one off — many women aren't — and keep in mind you'll probably be able to pull this off for just a few minutes. But it's well worth the energy to do some extra stretching and see if this position will work for you and your partner. We're thrilled to share them with you here, beginning with Cavanah and Venning's step-by-step suggestions for vaginal sex and then adding ideas for other forms of play each month. It's a very cuddly option that allows for a decent amount of tenderness and the whispering of sweet nothings, or dirty talk, depending on what you're into , plus it's a great way to switch things up if your partner's most comfortable on her back and you're sick of missionary-style positions. The key is to communicate with your partner. In a usual 69, when a partner gets super turned on, their mouth just sort of Ask your partner to touch herself while you touch yourself, says Harwick.
What makes it different here is that her body will be in a better position to actually navigate her movements more precisely — this increases her chances of reaching orgasm significantly. Next, have her lift her legs and arms up in the air. If it gets too tiring, form a tripod by having her drop one of her feet to the floor, which makes it easier on your legs. Another way to do it is to have her lean against a desk or table. Your partner kneels to enter, with his knees spread wide. She should also be on her side, using and can wrap her arm around your legs for balance and leverage. This variation, which is not for beginners, also requires some specific hardware, as you'll need a chin-up bar or some sort of equivalent bar for the top person to hang from. It's a commitment to call forth this lovely self and allow her to flourish. The woman lowers herself onto him, actively riding him rather than lying down or resting on her hands and knees. To love yourself and your body, and know that if you're open and honest, good sex is totally within your grasp. The Viennese Oyster Carlee Ranger In the Viennese oyster, the woman places her ankles behind her head while the man holds them there as he thrusts into her. So add these 12 new sex positions to your to-do list for The eye contact, the mild male dominance and the angle of penetration make this a popular one, and odds are, the first time you had sex was in Missionary. Start with toys first, and tweak the angle until both of you are comfortable enough to go for it. Have her straddle you, so she can move up and down. Stand in front of the bed leaving a few inches between you and the mattress , and hold her legs or have her wrap them around you. In a usual 69, when a partner gets super turned on, their mouth just sort of Every sexually active guy should be able to impress a woman with these fundamental moves. Lie back on an ottoman without wheels! She can sit with her back facing him or face him positioned on her knees or with her feet flat in the tub. This variation of Girl on Top offers her more control over the situation, while also allowing you to relax more. Plus, you can help her out by thrusting from beneath her.
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Lie on top of her, using your arms for support kind of like a plank , and enter her from behind. Plus, many of them can be performed with props or bondage techniques to really kick it up a notch. Keep safety in mind and let her down gently as soon as your strength starts to wane, and make sure you don't pull out too much.